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Communication & Conflict
Questions 1–5
Question 1
How satisfied are you with the way you and your partner communicate on a daily basis?
Not satisfiedVery satisfied
Question 2
When conflict arises, which best describes your typical response?
Question 3
How well do you feel your partner truly listens to you when you're expressing something difficult?
Rarely listensAlways listens
Question 4
Is there a topic or pattern of conflict in your marriage that feels unresolved or recurring?
Question 5
What is one communication habit you would like your partner to develop or strengthen?
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Intimacy & Romance
Questions 6–10
Question 6
How connected do you feel to your partner emotionally right now?
DisconnectedDeeply connected
Question 7
Which Love Language feels most like you? (Gary Chapman's 5 Love Languages)
Question 8
How often do you and your partner intentionally pursue time together — without kids, screens, or distractions?
Question 9
Is there anything that has created emotional distance between you recently? What do you think caused it?
Question 10
Describe the most connected you've felt to your partner in recent memory. What made that moment special?
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Faith & Prayer Together
Questions 11–15
Question 11
How central is faith in the daily rhythm of your marriage?
Not centralCompletely central
Question 12
How often do you and your partner pray together?
Question 13
How aligned do you feel with your partner spiritually — in beliefs, values, and the role faith plays in your home?
Very differentFully aligned
Question 14
What is one area of your spiritual life as a couple that you'd most like to deepen or rebuild?
Question 15
Describe a moment when you clearly saw God at work in your marriage. What happened?
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Purpose & Vision
Questions 16–20
Question 16
How clear are you on what your marriage is called to accomplish together — beyond raising a family or building a home?
No clarityVery clear
Question 17
Where do you see your marriage in 10 years? Which of these best captures your vision?
Question 18
Is there a dream, calling, or passion either of you has shelved that deserves to be revisited together?
Question 19
How well are you currently investing in your own individual growth — spiritually, mentally, emotionally?
Not investingDeeply investing
Question 20
If your marriage had a mission statement — one sentence that captured what you're about and why — what would it say?
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Your Assessment Summary
Remember: This isn't a grade — it's a starting point for an honest conversation.